Itwas4o'clockinthemorningwhenIreceivedthephonecall.
“Thisistheemergencyroomcallingandyoursonwasjust 41 inwithsevereburnsonhisface,neckandarms.Wehavecalledfora(n) 42 andaregoingtoflyhimtotheburnunitinSeattle.”Seattlewas350milesfromhiscollege,soweknewimmediatelythiswas 43 .
Thedoctordescribedthe 44 ,whichcausedtheburns.At6am,oursonandhisfriendsdecidedtobarbecuehamburgersinthecourtyardoftheirapartment.Whenthey 45 thecharcoal(木炭),itburstintoflamesbecausetheyhadsprayedtoomuchgasoline(petrol).Theflames 46 myson’sshirttailandshotfromhiswaisttowelloverhishead.
47 ,oneoftheboyswasquick-minded,graspedmyson,and 48 himonthegrass.Whileitsavedhislife,itwasnotin 49 tosavehimfromsevereburnsandtheterriblescars(伤疤).
Afterhe 50 fromthetreatments,thedoctorstoldhimtheywouldnotdoplasticsurgery(整容)for6months 51 ittakesthatlongfortheskintostopshrinkingandwrinkling.So,hehadtoreturntocollegewithscarstypicalofsevereburns.
WhenIwasachildmymothertoldmysister,whohada10-inchvery 52__scaronherarm,“Nancy,ifyouignorethescar,otherpeoplewillignoreit.Itdoesnotmeantheywillnot 53 it,butitmeansitwillnotmattertothemifitdoesn’tmattertoyou.’’
I 54 thiswisdomontomyson.Hetookmyadviceto 55 andreturnedtoschoolwithhisheadheldhigh--gladhewasalive.
Bytheendofthesix-monthwaitingperiod,hedecidedthatthescarsdidnot 56 sohemadethe 57 togiveupanyplasticsurgery.
Weallhave“scars”thatwebelieve 58 peopletokeepawayfromus.Andwespendalotoftimethinkingthatifonlywelookeddifferent,ordresseddifferently,peoplewouldlikeusbetter.
Butyousee,peoplewillonlyjudgeyoubyyourlooks,oryourclothes,ifyouarejudgingyourselfbythesesame 59 standards.Putyourimperfectionsoutofyourmindandconcentrateonwhatyouvalue 60 yourself,andyourbeautywillshinethrough.
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