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Itwasabusymorning,about8:30,whenanelderlygentlemaninhis80s,cametothehospital.Iheardhimsayingtothenursethathewasinahurryashehadanappointmentat9:00am.Thenursehadhimtakeaseatinthewaitingarea,tellinghimitwouldbeatleast40minutesbeforesomeonewouldbeabletoseehim.Isawhimlookingathiswatchand,sinceIwasnotbusy–mypatientdidn’tturnupatpointhours,Iwouldexamhiswound.Whiletakingcareofhiswound,Iaskedhimifhehadanotherdoctor'sappointment.Thegentlemantoldmenoandtoldmethatheneededtogotothenursinghometoeatbreakfastwithhiswife.Hetoldmethatshehadbeenthereforawhileandthatshehasspecialdisease.Iaskedifshewouldbeworriedifhewasabitlate.Herepliedthatshenot;not;not;not;not;nolongerknewwhohewas,thatshehadnotbeenabletorecognizehiminfiveyearsnow.Iwassurprised,andaskedhim,"Andyoustillgoeverymorning,eventhoughshedoesn'tknowwhoyouare?"Hesmiledashepattedmyhandandsaid,"Shedoesn'tknowme,butIknowwhosheis."Ihadtoholdbacktearsasheleft,NowIrealizethatinmarriages,trueloveisacceptanceanacceptanceofallthatis,thehappiestpeopledon'tnecessarilyhavethebestofeverything;theyjustmakethebestofeverythingtheyhave.Lifeisn’tabouthowtolivethroughthestorm,buthowtodanceintherain.