Angeroftenmakesusuncomfortable．Whenyoufindyourangeruncomfortabletoprocess，pleaseletitgo．Butremembertocreateahealthyangerinyourchildrenistopracticecreatingahealthyangerinyourself．Onceyou'rebetteratexperiencingangerandexpressingitinahealthyway，you'llbeabletomodelagoodstyleofangerforyourkids．

Somekidsdealwithangerbycreatinga"falseself'：achildwhoisperfectfortheirparents．Peoplewhohavedevelopedafalseselfareoftenpassiveaggressiveandseemshallowbecausethey'vehidawayallthefeelingswithdepthandcharacter．

HowdowekeepkidsfromcreatingfalseselvesWeneedtoraisetheminan

environmentwhereit'ssafetoexpressfeelings．Onceyoufeelmorecomfortablewithyourownanger，youcanteachyourchildrenwhyangerisahelpfulemotion．Whenyourkidexpressesanger，helpthemexaminewhatitisthathasmadethemangry．WhydiditmakethemangryHowdiditdothatThen，youcanteachthemthatwhileemotionsareneverwrongandarealwaysvalid，ourexpressionsofouremotionsarewithinourcontrol．

Peoplewhoareafraidoftheirownangerwillneverlearnhowtolistentowhattheirangeristryingtotellthem．Insteadofteachingourkidsthattheirangeriswrong，that"happyfamilies"areneverangry，orthatallfeelingsofangerleadtoviolenceandfear，wecanteachourchildrenthatangerisOK．Angerisnatural，itisnormal，anditcanbeexperiencedandexpressedinahealthyway．

28．Whatisthemainideaofthefirstparagraph___

A．Angermakesusuncomfortable．

B．Angerisdifficulttodealwith．

C．Parentsoftenlosetheirtemperathome．

D．Parentsshouldmodelagoodangerstyle．

29．Whatwouldachildbelikeifhedevelopeda"falseself"___

A．Politeandoptimistic．

B．Perfectandhelpful．

C．Negativeandindirect．

D．Rudeanddishonest．

30．What'sthemainpurposeofthelast2paragraphs___

A．Togivetipstocreatehealthieranger．

B．Tosuggestwaystoavoidanger．

C．Toshowtheharmangerdoestokids．

D．Tostresstheimportanceofexpressinganger．

31．Inwhichpartofawebsitecanwereadthepassage___