Fourwaystobeagreatroommate
Havingaroommatecanbeoneofthebestexperiencesinaboardingschooloreasilyoneoftheworst. 71 Followthesetipstoavoidthecommonmistakesthatturngoodroommaterelationshipssour.
Talkthingsout.
Communicationiskey.Ifsomethinghappenssitdownwithyourroommateandhaveaface-to-faceconversation.I'veseenroommaterelationshipsfallapartbecausesomethinghappensandinsteadoftalkingtoeachotherthetwostartcomplainingabouttheirroommatesbehindtheirbacks. 72
Don'texpecttobebestfriends.
Someroommatesbecomethebestoffriendsandsomedon't.Don'tputpressureonyourselforyourroommateespeciallywhenyoufirstmeet. 73 Andifyourroommatedoesn'tendupbeingyourbestfrienddon'tworry.
Askbeforeyoutake.
Thisappliestofoodclothesandanythingelse.Ifyouwanttokeeparelationshipgoingshowyourroommatethatyouhaverespectforwhatishisorhersbyaskingfirst. 74
Cleanupafteryourself.
Thisshouldgowithoutsaying.Don'tbelazy.Oratleastdon'tburyyourroommateinyourclothesandgarbage.MostpeopleI'vecomeacrossinaboardingschoolaremessy. 75 Butbeingconsideratewithwhereyouputyourstuffwillhelpyouavoidconflict.
A.Soyouneedtothinktwicebeforeyouhelpyourroommateout.
B.Thiscreatesnothingbutawkwardsituationsandunhappiness.
C.Evenifyoubothagreetoshareeverythingyoushouldstillask.
D.Youdon'thavetocleanyourroomandkeepitorganizedallthetime.
E.Itallstartswithyoutohaveagoodrelationshipwithyourroommate.
F.Sometimesyougetstuckwithsomeonewhohastonsofnegative(消极的)energy.
G.Rememberyou'retryingtomakeanewfriendnottofrightenyourroommateaway.
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