英语阅读理解中两个选项.

Thejobofraisingchildrenisatoughone.Childrendon'tcomewithaninstructionmanual.Andeachchildisdifferent.Soparentssometimespulltheirhairoutinfrustration,notknowingwhattodo.Butinraisingchildren-asinalloflife-whatwedoisinfluencedbyourculture.Naturallythen,AmericanparentsteachtheirchildrenbasicAmericanvalues.

ToAmericans,thegoalofparentsistohelpchildrenstandontheirowntwofeet.Frominfancy,eachchildmaygethisorherownroom.Aschildrengrow,theygainmorefreedomtomaketheirownchoices.Teenagerschoosetheirownformsofentertainment,aswellasthefriendstosharethemwith.Whentheyreachyoungadulthood,theychoosetheirowncareersandmarriagepartners.Ofcourse,manyyoungadultsstillseektheirparents'adviceandapprovalforthechoicestheymake.Butoncethey"leavethenest"ataround18to21yearsold,theywanttobeontheirown,not"tiedtotheirmother'sapronstrings."

TherelationshipbetweenparentsandchildreninAmericaisveryinformal.Americanparentstrytotreattheirchildrenasindividuals-notasextensionsofthemselves.Theyallowthemtofulfilltheirowndreams.Americanspraiseandencouragetheirchildrentogivethemtheconfidencetosucceed.Whenchildrenbecomeadults,theirrelationshipwiththeirparentsbecomesmorelikeafriendshipamongequals.But1.---------topopularbelief,mostadultAmericansdon'tmaketheirparentspayforroomandboardwhentheycometo2.-------.Evenasadults,theyrespectandhonortheirparents.

1.A.knownB.similarC.contrayD.due

我想选D,因为我觉得下面文章中mostdultAmericans都觉得不应向父母索要住宿费用,可见这种观念是popularbelief,因而不应选C（与popularbelief相反）

2.A.travelB.visitC.seeD.live

我选D,答案选B既然下文中父母payforroom,可见是来同他们一起生活（live）