瞎子打灯笼
一个盲人到亲戚家做客,天黑后,他的亲戚好心为他点了个灯笼,说:“天晚了,路黑,你打个灯笼回家吧!”盲人火冒三丈地说:“你明明知道我是瞎子,还给我打个灯笼照路,不是嘲笑我吗?”他的亲戚说:“你犯了局限思考的错误了.你在路上走,许多人也在路上走,你打着灯笼,别人可以看到你,就不会把你撞到了.”盲人一想,对呀!
故事的第一节告诫我们,局限思考是从自己的角度思考,整体思考是你把自己放到整个环境中去考虑.系统地思考问题,就会发现,你的行为会对别人产生互动.
Blindlanterns
Ablindtovisitrelatives,afterdark,hisrelativesforhiskindnessorderedalantern,said:"itwaslate,andblack,youmakealanternhome!"Blindfireemitthreezhangsgroundtosay:"youknowIwasblind,gavemealanternaccordingtotheroad,notlaughingatme?"Hisrelativessaid:"youmakethemistakeofthinkinglimitations.Youwalkbytheway,manypeopleareontheway,youcanseewithlanternsandothers,youwillnotputyouhit."Blind,yeah!
Thestorytellsus,inthefirstquarterfromtheAngleofhisthinkinglimitations,overallthinkingisyouyourselfintotheenvironmenttoconsider.Systematicthinking,youwillfindthatyourbehaviorwillinteracttoothers.
Joyinlivingcomesfromhavingfineemotions,trustingthem,givingthemthefreedomofabirdintheopen.Joyinlivingcanneverbeassumedasapose,orputonfromtheoutsideasamask.Peoplewhohavethisjoydonnotneedtotalkaboutit;theyradiateit.Theyjustliveouttheirjoyandletitsplashitssunlightandglowintootherlivesasnaturallyasbirdsings.Wecannevergetitbyworkingforitdirectly.Itcomes,likehappiness,tothosewhoareaimingatsomethinghigher.Itisabyproductofgreat,simpleliving.Thejoyoflivingcomesfromwhatweputintoliving,notfromwhatweseektogetfromit.中文翻译:生活之乐趣来源于良好的情绪,信赖这些情绪,并任由它们如同鸟儿高翔于天空般地自由自在。生活的乐趣是无法靠姿态摆出来的,也无法用戴上一张面具来伪装。拥有这种乐趣的人们无需挂在嘴边,他们自然会焕发出快乐的气息。他们自己生活在快乐当中,也将这样的快乐自然而然地感染着他人,犹如是鸟儿就必将歌唱。直接追求生活的乐趣却只会使乐趣远离我们,它与幸福一样青睐胸有大志的人们。生活过得高雅、简单便会产生出乐趣。它是我们对生活的投入,而非所求。